The bride wore black? You betcha. For her fall 2012 bridal collection, designer Vera Wang captivated editors, bloggers, and boutique owners when she presented dark, dramatic silhouettes sculpted from chiffon, French tulle, and Chantilly lace—such as the gorgeous asymmetrically draped gown we photographed for this issue’s fashion feature. Is it the traditional dress little girls dream of wearing down the aisle? Not exactly. Is it totally chic and 100 percent appropriate for modern brides? Absolutely. (And if you thought black was bold, be sure to check out the crimson beauties Wang designed for her spring 2013 bridal collection—the trend of colorful frocks isn’t fading anytime soon.)

Whether it’s a non-white wedding gown or a non-diamond ring, today’s couples are rethinking the rules of engagement. From over-the-top parties to intimate affairs, one thing is certain: these weddings are anything but ordinary. A Dia de Los Muertos themed shindig complete with taco carts, papel picado, and paper mache skeletons? One local couple pulled it off, and we have the photos to prove it. (p. 50)

We recognize your desire to be both authentic and diverse, so in this issue we present dozens of ways to make your wedding your own, from vibrant dessert displays (p. 68) to pattern-happy décor details (p. 84) to entertainment ideas that will kick your reception up a notch (p. 90). Take it from me: I have friends who, as we suggest in our entertainment round-up, had a mechanical bull at their ranch wedding reception a few summers back, and it was one heck of a good time—even the bride’s grandma hopped on for a ride!

Of course, a wedding is still a wedding, and while we’re in favor of unique events, you can’t go wrong with some tried-and-true ideas: Incorporating flowers with special meaning (p. 76), donning festive fashion (p. 58), and selecting food and drink pairings that perfectly match the theme of your fête (p. 94). Sure, rules were meant to be broken, but good taste never goes out of style.

Salt Lake/Park City Bride & Groom is here to help you navigate this brave new wedding world and strike a balance between old and new, refined and relaxed, thoughtful and organic. Planning the biggest party of your life? With our pages in your hands, it’s a piece of cake. Congratulations on your engagement! Dig in and enjoy the issue.